Friday 28 September 2007

Marriage Is a Holy Relation-7


OVERCOMING TEMPTATION:

                PMS (Premarital Sex) is a common temptation which presents itself to every
young  person.  Now-a-days  there  is  no  shortage  for  films,  video  cassettes,  novels,  etc which  are  full  of  filth  (rubbish)  and  obscenities.  Avoid  these  completely.  Avoid  friends who enjoy talking and seeing filth. 

               Today itself decide to say ‘No’ to PMS. Sooner or later you are going to face
the temptation. You may be too hot that moment to think and decide. So prepare your
answer today and be ready with it.

               Don’t develop intimate relationships with the opposite sex and never be alone
with the one. A boy and girl alone are like gunpowder and fire. Don’t go to the closeness
of producing a spark. It may end up in an explosion that will  wreck your life. As far as
possible, avoid physical contact with opposite sex. 

             Keep  yourself  away  from  the  married  people  also.  They  are  not  immune
(resistant)  to  temptations.  Boys  usual y  fall  in  love  with  house  wives  and  girls  with husbands. It is a futile love leading you nowhere. You can never be legally married to a married person. You will be called a ‘keep’. You will have no respect in the society. 

               You  should  understand  that  you  have  the  right  to  refuse  sex.  Do  not  be
threatened  into  a  sexual  relationship.  Innocent  girls  have  been  raped,  some-times
repeatedly  by  their  own  relatives,  friends  and  even  by  family  member’s  i.e.  brothers, father. You may not appreciate my words, but it was true. I myself met many girls whose lives  were  ruined  by  their  relatives  and  family  member’s.  If  anyone  makes  you uncomfortable, tel  your parents or friends, the one where you can get some help openly in a way they can understand. There is nothing wrong; you need not feel shame for it.

                 There are so many good things in this world that you can enjoy. Divert your
attention to them. Spend time with parents. Enjoy good food. Start reading good, clean,
useful,  and  interesting  books.  Go  out  camping  with  healthy  i.e.  good  friends.  The
forbidden (restricted, banned) fruit is not forbidden forever. Wait and you will  have your
reward.



IF YOU CAN’T LIVE WITH THE ONE WHOM YOU LOVE, PLEASE DON’T LOVE AND DON’T
SPOIL THEIR FUTURE.