In this
world there are
many relations which
relate or tie
different persons. To
survive in this world
everyone is dependent on others directly or indirectly i.e. by using
the
relations.
Marriage is
an intimate partnership
of love that
is spiritual, emotional
and
physical.
Marriage fulfills in a special way the basic need the men and women have to
love and to be loved.
Marriage does not mean it’s only an affair between two individuals,
or that
is meant only
for their personal
fulfillment. There should
be a proper
balance
between
the two.
Marriage is a vocation. The partners
receive a sacred call to commit themselves to
each
other, to build up their relation amidst the stresses and strains of life, to
dedicate
themselves together
to bring up
their children and
to bring their
contribution to the
building
up of harmony and peace in the family as well
as in the society.
Marriage is
the only relation
that is used
to tie up
man and woman. Hence
relationship
between a man and a woman is qualitatively different from that between a
man
and a man, or a woman and a woman.
Since India is a vast country we
follow different cultures. Marriage can be done in
different ways:
exchanging rings, tying
holy thread, register
marriage, exchanging
garlands,
placing bind-hi (kumkuma) on forehead, etc. All carry the same weight.
Marriage is a basic vocation to
life-long partnership and parenthood. The intimate
partnership of
love in not
meant to remain
sterile. It is
by nature directed
to the
procreation of
children i.e. giving
birth. The child
is the substantial
and permanent symbol of
the creative love
between the parents.
By giving birth
the job was
not completed,
there should be common dedication to bring up the children. It is a maturing and
integrating experience.
There
are many things
which should
be taken into
consideration before
entering into
this holy relation.
Try to understand
why i am stressing
much on this, because
even if a single point is ignored, your life will to end somewhere.
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